We’ve all been there—ready to enjoy a great game, only to have our experience marred by some frustrating behaviors on the court.
Let’s dive into some of the most annoying things a pickleball player can do and how we can keep our cool and not let these behaviors ruin our game. Plus, we’ll share some tips on how to handle these situations with grace.
1. Aimless or Angry Ball Hits
One of the most annoying habits is when players aimlessly or angrily hit the ball back to the other side after losing a point. One player vented, “I’m here to play pickleball, not play fetch because you’re upset.” This behavior forces others to chase after the ball unnecessarily, disrupting the flow of the game.
How to Handle It: Stay calm and politely ask the player to control their frustration. Remind them that keeping the ball in play helps everyone enjoy the game more.
2. Petty Line Calls
Another frustrating behavior is being petty about line calls. Some players falsely believe their opponents are making bad calls on purpose and retaliate by making bad calls themselves.
How to Handle It: Maintain your integrity and stick to honest calls. If a dispute arises, suggest replaying the point to keep the game fair and friendly.
3. Targeting Weak Players
Mercilessly attacking a weaker player can ruin the fun for everyone. While it’s okay to give weaker players more balls to help them improve, there’s no need to humiliate them with aggressive shots once it’s clear they can’t handle them. As one Pickleball Union Pro community player put it, “When playing rec ball, constantly targeting one player. No one wants to stand on a court and not play.” Another one added, “At least one person I unfortunately play against frequently does this every time and, even when called out, does it anyway.”
This approach not only diminishes the weaker player’s experience but also disrupts the overall enjoyment of the game.
How to Handle It: Aim to play competitively but fairly. Encourage weaker players and focus on making the game enjoyable for all skill levels.
4. Intentional Hard Body Shots
Constantly aiming for hard body shots, especially without apology, is another major annoyance. One player shared, “We had a guy in our group who was constantly gunning for our heads with no remorse. It wasn’t fun playing with him.”
How to Handle It: If someone continues this behavior despite friendly warnings, it might be best to stop inviting them to play. Safety and enjoyment should come first.
5. Throwing Your Paddle Around
Nothing says bad sportsmanship quite like throwing your paddle in frustration. It’s not only dangerous but also shows a lack of respect for fellow players and the game itself.
How to Handle It: Suggest they take a deep breath and step off the court for a moment. Remind them it’s just a game, and keeping a positive attitude will help them and everyone else enjoy it more.
6. Overusing Lobs
Overusing lobs can be particularly frustrating, especially if the player gets upset when you make them run. One player mentioned, “Half the people I play with are going to fall back and kill themselves on his stupid lobs.”
How to Handle It: Mix up your shots and strategies to keep the game dynamic. If lobs are excessive, communicate and agree on a more balanced play style.
7. Not Calling the Score
Players who don’t call the score out loud or mumble it can be incredibly frustrating. It disrupts the game flow and causes confusion.
How to Handle It: Politely remind them to call the score clearly. Consistent reminders can help build this good habit.
8. Celebrating Unforced Errors
It’s infuriating when players yell and celebrate after you make an easy unforced error. This behavior can be demoralizing and unsportsmanlike. As a Pickleball Union Pro member noted, “Uber celebrating when they get a point or laughing at you when you lose one—both are terrible sportsmanship.”
How to Handle It: Keep your focus on your game. If the behavior continues, have a calm conversation about maintaining sportsmanship.
9. Not Bringing Their Own Balls
Some players never bring their own balls, relying on others instead. As one player said, “They’re not broke because they have nice paddles. Just too lazy or cheap to bring balls!”
How to Handle It: Bring it up casually before the game starts, reminding everyone to contribute. You can also set a rule that everyone brings their own equipment.
10. Unsolicited Advice
There’s nothing worse than receiving constant, unsolicited advice from someone who isn’t particularly good themselves.
How to Handle It: Thank them politely but let them know you prefer to focus on your own style and learning pace.
11. Serving Before Ready
Serving before the receiver is ready can disrupt the flow and fairness of the game.
How to Handle It: Make it a habit to ensure your opponent is ready before serving. If it continues, discuss it openly and agree on a fair approach.
12. Not Moving to the NVZ
Players who don’t move to the NVZ can leave their partner to fend off opponents alone.
How to Handle It: Communicate with your partner about positioning and teamwork. Regular reminders can help reinforce good court habits.
13. Overrated Players in Advanced Play
Players who overestimate their abilities and join advanced courts during open play but then sign up for intermediate level tournaments.
How to Handle It: Begin with open discussions about the expected skill levels for each court. Players often welcome guidance when they’re unaware of a skill mismatch. If someone regularly misjudges their ability, experienced players should politely guide them to the appropriate courts.
How to Keep Your Cool on the Court
The key to enjoying pickleball is keeping your cool, no matter what. It’s all about good communication and not getting petty or trying to get back at people. Here’s how to handle annoying behaviors on the court without losing your cool.
Communicate Clearly
- Speak Up: If something’s bothering you, address it calmly and politely. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings and improve the game for everyone.
- Call the Score Loudly: Always announce the score clearly to avoid confusion and keep the game running smoothly.
Stay Positive
- Encourage Others: Compliment good shots and support your teammates. Positive reinforcement can boost morale and create a friendly atmosphere.
- Focus on Fun: Remember why you’re playing—to have fun! Keeping a light-hearted attitude can help you stay relaxed and enjoy the game more.
Avoid Pettiness
- Don’t Retaliate: If someone makes a bad line call or hits a ball out of frustration, don’t stoop to their level. Maintain your integrity and keep playing fair.
- Stay Professional: Treat every game with respect. Avoid arguing or getting into heated disputes over small issues.
Handle Annoying Behaviors Gracefully
- Be Patient: Understand that everyone has bad days. If someone is behaving poorly, give them the benefit of the doubt and focus on your game.
- Set Boundaries: If a player’s behavior is consistently disruptive, have a calm conversation about it. If necessary, involve a group leader or organizer.
By focusing on good sportsmanship and clear communication, we can all enjoy the game of pickleball to its fullest. So, get out there, have fun, and remember to keep your cool on the court!
